Monday, August 22, 2016

Fledgling Camp 3, August 15-17

Day 1: Hoag's Pond

Our first day together was spent at Hoag's Pond.  This hidden wetland sits within the "Hundred Acre Wood"; and has been preserved for public enjoyment.  Because of it's relative secluded nature it is chock full of life; ducks, deer, frogs, dragonflies and damselflies galore, great blue herons, an otter or fox.

We started our day using the Super Secret Spider Sprayers as an icebreaker. We paired up into trail buddies (we deliberately ask them to pair up with someone they don't know well) and used the sprayers to care for the spiders by giving them a much needed drink, and explored the structure and symmetry of spider webs. Driven by their curiosity, some campers learned which parts of the web were sticky and which were not by touching the different strands of web. We use the mottos challenge by choice and stretch your edge when supporting new exploring opportunities. Our experience shows that huge personal growth can happen when you do something you've never done before or step into your personal perception of fear.

Fledglings spent the day exploring nature, playing games, getting to know one another, and learning the foundational mottos of our organization.  Of most importance is our safety first motto. We know that both physical and emotional safety are important for a successful experience. By emphasizing both repeatedly we hope to establish a culture where we feel free to explore, express their needs, and widen our circle in reaching out to make new friends. These Fledglings brought up the golden rule of treating others like you want to be treated, and they practiced this "rule" in their interactions all week, with minimal reminders from mentoring team.

Thanks to the warm weather and our water consumption, we attained a new comfort using the nature potty, with repeated practice "peeing like a bear". We got stuck in the mud, scraped knees, got stung by nettle, explored our individual roles in our group dynamic, made fairy villages and connected to nature and each other is all kinds of ways. On their own initiative, we played 12+ rounds of duck, duck, goose, using different animals as context and taking turns so that each person got a chance.

For many, their favorite time together today was actually spent alone, in about twenty minutes of quiet, solo time during a cherished tradition called peaceful place. Think of the last time you were able to spend quiet time in nature, just observing and connecting to nature in your own way. Remember how it feels. What a gift this is to a child! To anyone. We ended the day with a circle, taking turns expressing our gratitude for what we connected with. This Attitude of Gratitude is both a motto and a tradition. Please ask your Fledgling what they were most grateful for!

Day 2: Bakerview Beach (A big thank you to the Campbells for allowing us to access the beach from their home -and sharing their sweet dog Cocoa!)

After a quick gathering game of Furry the Fir Cone, we held our opening circle to talk about our plan for the day. We talked about the concept of the Salish Sea, why estuaries were special and the power of the sun. We applied sunscreen and expressed how we were feeling today by comparing our inner selves to weather (I'm feeling sunny. I'm feeling partly cloudy), passed out jobs and then we were off and ready to explore. The expansiveness of the beach called! These fledglings dropped their packs as soon as we hit the beach and some took off straight across the sand on their way to the water's edge, with a couple of mentors and Cocoa the dog in their wake. They walked out across the exposed tidal flats on their journey for a long time, thanks to the low tide and the Nooksack river -which dumps sediment at least a mile into Bellingham Bay.

Others chose to stay closer to our home base in the driftwood logs and began excavating and building their castles, exploring nature close at hand and social relationships. This divided the group temporarily, but gave these children freedom to fuel their wonder and curiosity, explore their senses, choose their path and engage with each other in small groups. These small groups utilize a high level of collaboration and compromise skills as we navigate the social realm of play; sharing ideas, choosing who to explore with, who to play with and how to work together as they problem solved while building their villages. These are critical life skills! They practiced and became confident going potty outdoors at this point, as again we drank lots of water.
Both groups encountered wildlife from eagles, gulls, clams and flounder and fully engaged with the physical environment. So much fun in the sand, eelgrass, algae, seawater and muck! By lunchtime we had reassembled as a group to explore the coastline, play games together, and create some more villages. Exploring the many uses of Bull kelp was particularly fun, and discussing why a flounder's eyes move from one side of it's head to the other, "Whoa! That's so weird"! Seeking shelter from the sun, we headed over to the shade of some massive willow trees near the estuary, where the Nooksack River actually merges into Bellingham Bay. This is where we had our peaceful place for a 20+ minutes, ending by building wish boats out of driftwood to send our gratitude out to the world.

We stood on top of a mountain! Well, we discovered that by standing on the sand in the estuary, we were actually standing on the eroded product of the glacier's work in the mountains. It's a river's job to bring the mountains down to the sea, and they break up those big boulders on the mountains, crash them around as they tumble downstream until they reach the bay as the sand particles we were standing on. There was this long pregnant pause and then, "Whoa". Which lead to jumping, of course!


We circled up after this long day of sunshine to express our gratitude for the gifts of the day. Words of the Day: Gud (Good mud), fun, sun, Cocoa, estuary, Salish Sea.

Day 3: Lake Padden!


The Wild Whatcom motto most in play today (besides Safety first!) was It's about the journey, not the destination. We started our day with a game, Pack Leader. We welcomed each other, acknowledged our tired bodies and went on our journey of exploration with a somewhat more subdued feel to our group. We had settled into a routine of finding a new trail buddy, "It's harder to find someone I don't know, now" and being open to the journey of discovery that awaited us. First, though, spiderwebs! A reflection of our very first moments together, exploring spiderwebs went from wonder and admiration for their structure and beauty to a thorough examination of spider silk, different silk consistency and identifying the subtle differences between female/male spiders, anatomy and comparison to insects and related arachnids, like Daddy Longlegs/Harvestmen. 

We hiked along the Padden Gorge for a bit, revisiting some plant identification like nettles, and did the Oregon Grape challenge, and then up into the forest to what was to become our playground for the next 3 hours. We mentors didn't start off with that intention, but it was clear to us that these fledglings were in need of some downtime to relax and play. They needed time to explore freely to connect with nature, and each other in new ways.  They were tired, and needed a bit of rest, snack and water and time to unwind by playing. There is ample research supporting the long term value of unstructured time to play in nature. Those children lucky enough to have time to freely play in nature, are more likely to develop a relationship with nature, even a love for nature, and are more likely to take care of nature when they are grown ups. 

It all started with Banana Slugs. They were our gateway to imaginative play. We found a few in the place we stopped for snack and our imaginations let loose from there as we decided to build slug homes/fairy houses. We explained slug anatomy and natural history and the awesomeness of their mucus/slime. We talked about how slugs are hermaphrodites, and we should consider what names might work and which pronouns to use. The Fledglings decided to work alone or in small groups, which shifted quite a lot as they got caught up in each other's imaginative worlds. Soon there was a slug doctor's office, a bug apartment building, a playground and multiple hands-on encounters with slugs and slug slime, some for the very first time. One child who previously was quite scared of slugs stretched her edge enough to touch one! Play breaks down barriers of all kinds, whether they be self imposed fears, social awkwardness, anxiety or physical stamina outdoors. We mentors saw these children move from independent creative projects to full engagement with each other. For creating connections with nature and each other, there is no better glue than time to play together. We played a few more directed games too, and had more hands-on slug love than any group I've ever seen! You'll have to look through our photo album for lots of slug love.

We finally decided we were hungry enough and it was hot enough to hike back down to the lake, eat lunch and go swimming for our last activity together. There were many sighs as we realized that our days together were coming to a close. We ended with a circle of gratitude for each other, which was challenging for some of us. It is understandably difficult to express personal feelings to a group, especially at this age.

We agreed on our words for the day: slugs, mud, friends, Wild Whatcom!

Click right here for the photo album for this session of camp.

Monday, August 8, 2016

Tides & Trails Camp, July 18-22


Day 1: Challenge course

We jumped right into our first day of camp with a team-building, edge-stretching morning at the Lakewood Challenge Course. We gathered in the parking lot for our Opening Circle, introducing ourselves to the group and sharing a chosen attitude that we would bring to each day of camp (positivity, preparedness, open-mindedness, etc.). We then discussed the motto Stretch Your Edge and connected with one another over the things in our lives that push us out of our personal comfort bubbles a little bit (or A LOT!). With that, we were ready to take on our first big challenge of the camp week- the ropes course! 

Some highlights of the day included:

  • Meeting and greeting the Challenge Course instructors with silly ice-breakers including funny handshakes, partner dance-offs, and a prompt to choose and act out a two-in-one animal of your choice. 
  • Solving the first challenge- to unlock the imaginary keypad...ask your daughter about this activity!
  • Collaborating and Compromising to figure out how to get every group member through the Spiders Web without touching it. 








  • The Leap of Faith, a high ropes element that requires you to climb up a latter and runged tree to get to a high platform and then...JUMP! to reach a swinging trapeze. The girls were incredibly encouraging of one another and every gal tried this element!
  • Enjoying a group debrief and acknowledgements during lunch after an adrenaline-filled morning! 
  • Breaking the WWWR (Wild Whatcom World Record) for fastest time solving the code to free the loch ness monster...14.8 seconds! 
  • Enjoying the peace and quite of the lake during Peaceful Place to complete our day.


Day 2: Blanchard Mountain trek

 We had perfect hiking weather, with scattered clouds and sunshine for our second day of camp. This 8 mile trek was both physically and mentally demanding, but the peaceful lake and lunch spot at the end of our trail was well worth the effort! The girls exemplified a positive and supportive attitude throughout the day as we meandered our way up the trail to Lily Lake. 

Some highlights of the day included:

  • Testing our navigation skills as we reviewed our chosen route and got our bearings with map and compass during Opening Circle

  • Playing trial games such as "Inky Pinky", telling stories, learning about edible plants, and solving five minute mysteries as we hiked our way up, up, up to Lily Lake.
  • Getting to our destination! Ahhhh and what a beautiful sight it was! We had lunch and shared jokes...some longer than others:) while birds and bees hummed and flitted around us. Ask your daughter about the new bird and bird call we learned (the Cedar Waxwing). 



Day 3: Lummi Island Biking

Highlights of the day:
  •  Ferrying across the bay with expansive views and sun shining down on us. What a way to start off a great day!

  • Warming up our biking muscles with the peanut butter dance (your daughter can elaborate)
    • Setting off on our journey around the island after a quick fill-up of trail snacks at the local general store.
    • Discovering the hidden labyrinth at the community church and taking a moment to commemorate and learn about the lives of those burried on this island. 
    • Cycling our way to the beach where we kicked back and relaxed after a few full days of activity. 
    • Swimming, sunning, and enjoying a long peaceful place at the beach. The water became calm and still and all we could hear were seagulls calling and sea lions crying to one another directly off shore from where we sat. 




    Day 4/5: Climbing at Mt. Erie/ Campout at Deception Pass

    Highlights of the overnight:
    • Great edge-stretching from the girls while climbing at Mt. Erie!
    • Watching sunset at Deception Pass- a double rainbow even emerged!
    • Hanging on the beach and collecting wish rocks
    • Connecting and learning about each other and ourselves during the leadership quadrant activity.





    Overall this week was full of new connections, edge-stretching activities both physically and mentally, a lot of support and encouragement of one another, and growth as a group and as individuals.

    For the full album of the week, click here.







    Tuesday, August 2, 2016

    Chuckanut Wilds Camp: July 11-15

    Day 1: Chuckanut Seashore Coves 

    Our first day of camp was fun and exciting with new connections, sharing of mottos and nature knowledge, constant giggling and, we can't forget, a frenzy of ferocious bees! Needless to say, we learned quickly whose rightful home we were intruding upon during a friendly game of Hide! The chorus of Kelly Clarkson's, "Stronger", became the theme song to our day as a result of the bee incident. Enjoy listening to this (very inspiring) song as you read on if you so choose :)

    Some highlights of Day 1:
    • Meeting new friends and reconnecting with old during our opening circle.
    • Playing a game of Who Am I? while we gathered, attempting to guess the native PNW plant or animal written on tape on our backs
    • The girls used there Collaborate and Compromise skills for the first of many times during the week to decide which trail to take to the beach
    • Scrambling over rocks and logs as we made our way down to a clearing in the Chuckanut forest. Here we had snack, explored the stream, and attempted a game of Hide before the bees found us :(
    • When everyone had settled down after the bee incident, we made our way out of the forest with encouraging and supportive words from those in the group who hadn't been stung, and extreme bravery from those who had. Although this experience was scary in the moment, upon reflection at the end of the day, it was a very educational moment, as well as a time of deep group connection.
    • Exploring the beach and discovering crabs, sand dollars, and sea anemones!
    • Hiking back to our gathering spot with a chorus of girls singing "what doesn't kill us makes us stronger, stand a little taller..."
    Day 2: Fragrance Lake Hike

    Highlights of the day:

    • Gathering with a game of "piny the pine cone" at the Upper Fragrance Lake Trailhead
    • Choosing buddies with someone we didn't know well and creating jobs for the day. The girls came up with: The Motivators/Spirit Girls, The Potty Patrol, The Navigator, The Leaders (we swapped among buddy pairs), and The Buddy Patrol. The girls created a great count-off system and used it throughout the day to make sure the group was all together!
    • Playing trail games like Inky Pinky as we hiked down to the lake
    • Nature peeing and learning about Fox Walking to limit our impact on plants.
    • Swimming in the chilly lake or encouraging our friends from the sidelines.
    • Using our Owl Eyes to search for "worms" hidden in the forest
    • Sharing the lessons we've learned from bees and how to react when they are present 
    • Enjoying a long peaceful place by the lake, followed by a great sharing circle complete with poems, art, short stories, and nature observations. 
    • Playuing trail games such as The Talbots game (a nature guessing game and observation practice) as we made our way down the trail.
    • Playing Poison Dart frog at the end of the trail before our Closing Circle. 

    Day 3: Bakerview Beach

    Highlights of the day:

    • Playing an energetic game of Rabbit Hole (a tag variation) while we gathered in the Campbell's yard. 
    • Setting up camp at the drift wood fort down on the beach. 
    • Running through the shallow tidepools and building sand villages and hot tubs far out on the beach.
    • Singing Happy Birthday around a beautifully made and decorated mud cake for Bronwyns 8th Birthday!
    • Becoming Wild Whatcom Mud Monsters as we covered ourselves with HQM (High Quality Mud)- yes, hair included!
    • Sharing an attitude of Gratitude for the beautiful beach, the water, the sunshine, the mud, new friends, and laughter. The depth and thoughtfulness of this group of young gals was truly inspiring and shone through during every closing circle.



    Day 4/5: Larrabee State Park Campout 

    Highlights of the overnight:

    • Meeting and loading up cars with an enthusiastic and very efficient fire line to kick off our day
    • Enjoying snack, rock scrambling, and exploring the tide pools and shoreline down at the beach. 
    • Parading ourselves to our very large campsite (with two fire pits!) where the girls snapped right into action setting up what would be our home for the next day and a half.
    • Setting up our shelters with some very collaborative problem solving in regards to tent assembly and most efficient use of space inside each tent. The girls squeezed in like sardines with giggles and not one complaint!
    • Carrying out camp chores such as water fetching, dinner preparation, campsite organization, and encouragement from all throughout the evening.
    • Watching a short dinner skit (the dinner blessing) from our kitchen crew.
    • Sharing our thanks and highlights from the week during a very yummy dinner of burrrritos!
    • Sharing stories and songs around the campfire...and roasting marshmallows! 
    • Walking down to the waterfront for a beautiful sunset on the rocks.
    • Ending our day with a silent, solo walk back to the campsite.
    • Sharing acknowledgements at breakfast, recognizing each other for great collaboration, new friendships, and bravery for spending a night out in the woods away from home!


    For the full album of the week, click here.